Friday, January 30, 2009

An introduction to Paris libertin (swinger) clubs

The spirit of sexual liberation and pleasure in Paris infamous at the end of the 19th century lives on today.

The liberal attitude to homme-femme relationships is unique to France. Many Parisians regularly indulge in casual sexual relations solely for pleasure in many imaginative ways.

Paris libertin clubs come in all shapes and sizes and cater for all tastes.

In the early 1970’s, the only Paris libertin club was Le 2plus2. This was joined in the early 1980’s by the club Chris et Manu. Both still exist today.

In the 70’s many Paris libertin couples were sitting in their cars at the bottom of the Avenue Foch and other selected places in late night Paris leaving their car interior lights switched on to find like minded couples. Consenting couples then went back to an appartment.

Today there are around 20 libertin clubs in central Paris and four or five in the suburbs.

The clientele for libertin clubs is unbelievably varied:

young girls wishing to explore their sexuality through new experiences accompanied by embarrassed boyfriends who don’t understand why,

70 year olds who have been going to libertin clubs for 30 years arriving with a surprising variety of women,

couples who live together wanting to explore their sexuality or save their marriages,

working people having afternoon affairs,

modern mistresses who have professional jobs but get help from married men,

amateur escorts with a professional job needing some extra money at the end of the month but who participate freely in the true spirit and they enjoy it,

professionals who make a living from escorting, not the best participaters, men paying a lot for not very much,

many single men who are doomed, they are allowed into some clubs at different times, our strong advice, always go as a couple but sometimes single women are allowed into couples only clubs,

bisexual women are 90% of the female Paris libertin club scene, they are bisexual not lesbian, great moments for everyone, especially themselves,

all races, all nationalities are welcome if they respect the clubs and the other participants, there are no taboos,

there is no Gay activity in Paris libertin clubs, Gays have their own very active club scene in Paris.



In the Paris libertin club scene, there are some people who go to simply satisfy their sex drive. But many people are looking for new experiences outside the possibilities of what can happen in the simple relationship of a couple.

Participants are united by respect. They dress with style not protocol - no jeans or trainers (sneakers) for men and skirts or dresses are obligatory for women. There is privacy and integrity, what happens behind closed doors stays there.

Hygeine and safe sex is normally guaranteed.

Foreigners struggle with the Paris libertin scene. In Paris, libertin does not mean swinger. The behaviour is different. It is much more than swinger. There are many disappointments and mistaken complaints from foreigners. It is a question of understanding the system.

This blog will try to help foreigners whether living in Paris or as visitors to enjoy the pleasures of Paris libertin clubs.

Some of the future postings:

• the different libertin clubs in Paris
• the french vocabulary of libertin clubs
• profiles of people who go to libertin clubs
• how Parisians behave
• when to go, how to get in
• how clubs make their profits
• how can a man find a suitable woman
• how to behave inside a club libertin
• single men are doomed
• first time couples in libertin clubs
• bisexual women in libertin clubs
• what women want
• what men want
• individual stories
• single women coming to Paris


Use the e-mail address parishot75@gmail.com to contact us for information which we cannot express on the blog. It sometimes takes time to respond but we will try.

Please post on this blog with respect. This a mature community with values and respect. We want to leave the blog open for constructive and intelligent comments and questions, but like the Paris libertin clubs, we will not tolerate disrespect.

Welcome to the world of Paris pleasure, please discover and enjoy.

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